Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Happy 1st Birthday Brett!

Yesterday, we celebrated Brett's 1st birthday. When he woke up, Garrett & I sang Happy Birthday to him and when we arrived at church for the day, Brett's teacher had a "Happy Birthday" balloon for him. Brett loved it. I think he really loved it because his big brother wasn't around to take it away from him :)
After lunch, Garrett, his classmates and the teachers all got together to sing Happy Birthday and to watch him eat his 1st cake, which was shaped like a basketball.
For some reason, (like it is a requirement of being a good mom) I felt compelled to make Garrett and Brett's 1st birthday cake. So I made a cake and brought cupcakes for the other kids and the teachers.
I hoped that Brett would like his cake more than Garrett did. Garrett just looked at his, cried and wanted us to get it away from him! I had better luck with Brett; however, because it was shaped like a basketball, Brett had more fun hitting it like a ball instead of eating it.
We all had fun watching him and Garrett did a great job letting Brett get the attention.

Friday, June 6, 2008

My, how they grow!

We spent Memorial Day weekend at my mother-in-law's house because our a/c broke that Thursday and they couldn't get the part in until the following Tuesday. Luckily, my MIL was glad to have us for the weekend, so we all enjoyed the weekend playing in her pool.

I caught this picture of Fred and Garrett...and it reminded me of a similar picture I had taken 2 years before.





Brett enjoyed the day as well and his Daddy had fun creating new mohawk hair-dos for them!

Band-aids

Most kids, I'm told, like to wear band-aids and think they are cool...not Garrett. He acts like it is the end of the world when you need to put a band-aid on him. Recently, he was playing in the pool at my mother-in-laws when he slipped and fell, and scraped his chin pretty bad. The next day, he was messing around and fell again on the same spot, this time cracking it open wider and definitely needing a band-aid.

It took both me and Fred to put a little neosporin and a band-aid on his chin. You would of thought that we were pouring alcohol in his cut and performing surgery on it without anesthesia. He was truly freaking out! I was trying to be calm throughout the whole thing, even though it was making my stomach upset hearing him scream bloody murder, and seeing all the blood, but I kept myself together enough to tell him repeatedly that he was alright, the band-aid was not going to hurt him, and that it would help his boo-boo heal. At the time, it did not seem like he was hearing anything that I said because he just kept on screaming at the top of his lungs.

A couple days later, however, I was getting ready for work and I overheard him saying, "this is a band-aid and it won't hurt, it is going to make your boo-boo heal" I looked up to see him sticking my post-it notes all over his face as his band-aids.






He was even willing to help Brett out and put a couple band-aids on his boo-boos!


I smiled to myself, realizing that some of what you teach them actually does stick :o)

Brotherly Love

I'm beginning to learn what brotherly love is all about! One minute Garrett is pushing, hitting, kicking or choking Brett and the next minute he is trying to protect him from falling off the bed or telling me that he wants him to go riding on his new tractor.






It's exciting to watch them together! Garrett got a John Deere "Gator" for his 3rd birthday and he and Brett drive all around our yard. It is SOOOO cute and Garrett is a natural behind the wheel. He can maneuver it around trees and he and Brett help their Daddy by "mowing the lawn" with it.



And Brett just loves Garrett...even with all of the "love" hits that he gives him. Brett calls hims "Ga" and will patiently wait for him while Garrett takes a rest from his driving duties. Secretly, I think Brett is thinking, "just wait, a few more months and I'll be the driver!"

Garrett's 3rd Birthday Party

Garrett turned 3 on May 15th. Wow!!! I've been a Mom for 3 years now and now know what people were talking about when they say that they can't imagine life without them or remember how life was without them.

We had his birthday party at Ready-Set-Play in Round Rock.




He had a blast with all his friends...and so did his little brother.






A BIG THANKS goes out to my friend, Cathy. She made Garrett's birthday cake, and, as you can see by the pictures, she is extremely talented. If anyone needs a cake for any occasion, I highly recommend her!

It's Been A Long Time....

For all my blogging friends...I'm sorry, I haven't been much of a friend :(

I just looked at the last time I made an entry and it has been 3 months ago! Time flies when you're having fun!

My part-time job at church has kept me full-time busy, but I LOVE IT! I can truly say that I love my job...and, looking back at my career, sadly, I haven't been able to say that in about 20+ years. I believe I have finally found the job that people talk about when they say they are in the flow...you look up and can't believe how much time has went by.

Anyways, it took me awhile, but I'm working on getting balance back and being a better friend.

Thursday, March 20, 2008

Unemployed to 2 Part-Time Jobs in a One Day

Wow, how time flies! I just realized that it has been 3 weeks since I posted anything on my blog. I guess that is what employment can do to you - or should I say what coordinating 3 people's lives to get out the door every morning and being exhausted by the end of the day after they go to sleep - does to me!

For those of you who know me well - you know that I have always been very career oriented - but, last year, as one of my first major steps of faith and living for God's will instead of my own, I left my career to stay at home. After 1 year of being a stay-at-home Mom, I can say it is one of the hardest things I have ever done and I have a whole new respect for women who stay at home to raise their children and take care of their home and families. It really takes a special person, I believe, to do that - and to do it well. I never felt like I was good at it.

So...when opportunity came knocking for me to take a part-time job, I was thrilled. I did, however, give it a lot of thought and prayer to make sure it wasn't just about me wanting to escape being at home full-time because if that is really what I was supposed to do, I was ok with that. But, in 1 day, I went from being unemployed to having 2 part-time jobs. One of the jobs gives "part-time" a new meaning, because it is only 40 hours per year (yes - that is per YEAR), the other is ~20 hours a week working for our church. I started the 1st week of March and I love it. I already knew and are friends with a lot of the people on staff from volunteering, Connect Groups and other groups that we have been involved in over the last couple years with the church, plus, big bonus, my boys will be on campus with me while I work because they have staff daycare - it is awesome - definitely a God thing.

Saturday, March 1, 2008

I'm a Big Boy Now

A couple weeks ago, I decided that I would see if Brett was big enough to ride in a shopping cart without being in his car seat. He could sit up, so why not. He did a great job and Garrett was so happy and proud. He told everyone that we passed that "this is my brother!" They have cool shopping carts now, race cars and Barney mobiles...they never had things like that when I was growing up.

Big Brother showing me the ropes





It is so much easier to shop with both of them sitting in the front of the cart, not to mention that it lessens the likelihood of me being an unknowing shoplifter again. I have had a few occasions when Brett was sitting in the main part of the shopping cart in his car seat that after unloading the kids and all of the groceries into the car, I discovered an item that was hiding under Brett's car seat - unpaid for. After making it through the store, the check out line, and back to the car without any major meltdowns (and a couple times with a major meltdown)...admittedly, I was not willing to trek all the way back into the store to pay for the 1 item that I inadvertantly did not get out of the cart. I do have a conscience, though, and have subsequently admitted what happened and paid for the items on a subsequent trip to the store.

7 Months Old and On the Move

Brett turned 7 months old on Thursday and celebrated the day by beginning to crawl! OMG, I have 2 boys on the move. I was barely keeping up with 1. Great way to rid myself of extra pounds, though! He's also a chatterbox...he has so much to tell us and while Fred was changing his diaper this morning, I swear that I heard him say MaMa (and I'm sure he knew exactly what he was saying, unlike the random DaDa's that he has been babbling for weeks)...ok, I'll get out of my delusions now. He is also pulling himself up. We have come into his room a few times and he was standing up while telling us that he wanted OUT...NOW!!!

Girlfriends


I went to the ladies Refreshed last night at our church. On the way there I was talking to my Mom on the phone, telling her how blessed I am to have made so many wonderful women friends in the last year or so. After the event, I was telling Fred the same thing. I had friends before, but throughout my life I would tend to only have a couple really good friends at a time...not complaining, but also had some women who I thought were friends who really were not. The friends that I am blessed with now are such wonderful and incredible women. They each bring something very unique to my life. Being a relatively new Christian - working on walking the walk, instead of just talking the talk - I'm realizing each and every day how Awesome God is and how He really does take care of all our needs. I praise Him for each and every one of my Girlfriends. To all of you wonderful women - Thank You for your friendship, support, honesty, loyalty, and genuineness - You are all such beautiful people and such a Blessing. I am so grateful that you are a part of my life.

Wednesday, February 20, 2008

Wish List and Desires of the Heart...


I was given a challenge by my friend, Erica, about a week ago to list 5 material and 5 spiritual things that I would like in my life. It took me a while to get them posted, but here they are:

5 Material Things
1) A new wardrobe – I would like a new up-to-date stylish wardrobe. I feel like the lady in the commercial that has let herself go since having kids, not to mention that so many of my clothes are very old.
2) A separate office (that is not in our bedroom) so I can put all of my office furniture in it, instead of having it in storage, and so I have a place to go to think.
3) A part-time job that does not interfere with raising my boys, but that can satisfy that part of my being (to think and produce)
4) A job for Fred that is truly satisfying to him, but that requires less overtime and less exposure to the evils of this world.
5) An ipod so I can download my favorite songs and play them in my new car – along with taking another step forward into this century (I’m really behind on all the techy toys)

5 Spiritual Things
1) That I can be disciplined to spend time with God everyday and increase and improve my relationship with Him, along with increasing my knowledge of His word.
2) That my family would come to know Jesus as their Savior, friend, and Redeemer, so they can really start living and experience all that God has for them.
3) That I can have the strength, wisdom, and humility to become the woman that God wants me to be – as a Daughter of Christ, Wife to Fred and Mother to Garrett & Brett
4) That I can discipline and raise my kids through God’s love, wisdom and grace so they will grow up to be all they can be in Jesus' strength.
5) That I can know, develop, and use my God-given Spiritual gifts to bring Him glory.

Saturday, February 16, 2008

Parent's Night Out

Last night, we took advantage of our church's Parent's Night Out. We were able to drop off both the boys at 6:30pm and didn't have to pick them back up until 10:30pm. It was great!

Fred and I went to Gumbo's in Round Rock, which is a great restaurant. If you haven't been there, I would highly recommend it and our favorite item on the menu - Tenderloin St. George.
It is the best piece of meat I have ever tasted. It is so tender that it melts in your mouth and is served with crab meat and bernaise sauce on the top - YUM!!! I knew that it had been a long time since we had ate there, but Fred reminded me that it was before we were married - I guess that's what 2 kids will do to your date nights.

Lots of people have told me that we need to go out on dates to keep our marriage strong. Last night was one of those nights that that especially rang true for me. I really enjoyed my time with Fred. It was so nice to go to a nice restaurant, enjoy a glass of wine and eat a fantastic meal, all while talking to my husband without constant interruption from the boys.

Many thanks go out to Celebration Church and to Pastor Elizabeth and Pam for all their hard work in planning Parent's Night Out. As a parent, I am extremely grateful for the time shared alone with my husband knowing that my boys were well taken care of.

Wednesday, February 13, 2008

HUGE Victory

Many of you will now be able to tell me, "I told you so!" and I will smile to myself knowing that you were right. Last night, I took the plunge and made Garrett go to bed without laying down with him. HOORAY!!!!! For the last 14 months, Garrett has not went to bed by himself and up until December or so, he was sleeping in our bed everynight.

So, with the encouragement from a friend, I took a deep breath and decided that last night was the night that Garrett was going to go to sleep without me or Fred laying down with him. Since Fred had to work late last night, I was the only one that had to hear him scream, which I think made it easier to follow through. I was very surprised that Brett slept through the whole 1 hour and 10 minutes of Garrett screaming while being put back into his bed many many times. I followed the Super Nanny routine (with a few minor adjustments) of telling him goodnight and putting him to bed, then telling him goodnight the 2nd time and each time after that just picking him up and placing him back in his bed. After a while, I wasn't sure if he was going to give up, but I kept at it and with God's help, I was able to keep my calm and patience to endure the very LONG hour of screaming. He did try everything he could think of, though, and I did feel bad a few times when he kept telling me, "I'm sorry, sorry, Momma I'm sorry", which is when I explained to him that I was not mad at him, that I loved him very much, it was just time for him to go to bed. I hugged and kissed him on the way back to his bedroom several times to reassure him that I was not mad at him and I did love him (he just needed to GO TO BED). He finally gave up and went to sleep. YES!!!

Fred had to work late again tonight, so I went through the same routine with both him and Brett....and it worked. Last night I decided that both of them were going to bed without me laying down or rocking them. Brett fell asleep after about 10 minutes of fussing. Tonight it only took him about 5 minutes and he was asleep. For Garrett, there was some screaming and getting out of bed and being put back in bed several times, along with him telling me he was sorry, but tonight it only lasted 20 minutes. He finally asked me for all his friends (Mickey Mouse, Curious George, the dinosaur and Elmo) and after wimpering a few more times, he went to sleep.

Tomorrow may be a little ruff because it will be the 1st night that his Daddy will be here at bedtime. He may try the same tricks to get him to lay down with him, but as long as Fred and I stand united, I think we have won a major battle. I can't say that we have won the war yet, because he did sneak into our bedroom in the middle of the night and crawl in bed with us! That has to stop, of course, but I'm thankful for the battle we just won and am very confident that we will win the war! Hallelujah.

Thank you, Erica. Your honesty and encouragement last night really helped me finally take this giant (and healthy) step forward.

Tuesday, February 12, 2008

Mustang, "No It's A RACE CAR!!!!"

I must have missed the chapter in the toddler book that described the moment when your 2 1/2 year old becomes all-knowing about the world.

Last night, we were driving home from our 1st experience at Chuck E. Cheese when I pointed out a white Mustang driving down the highway to Garrett. He didn't miss a beat and emphatically told me that it was not a Mustang, "it is a RACE CAR!!!!" It is not that Garrett doesn't know what a Mustang is...for those of you that don't know, Garrett's Dad is the proud owner of a '66 Mustang Fastback so Garrett KNOWS what a Mustang is and what they look like.
No, this is not the first time that Garrett has had to correct me, in fact, it is becoming a very common event. If I say it is black, he says it is white or for example when I told him that he is my son and he had to correct me by informing me that he is not my son, he is his daddy's son (and in some ways that is SOOO true - lol). It is even funnier when he asks me what something is and I tell him, then he corrects me by telling me what it really is! And, he is so passionate (code word - LOUD and YELLING) when he has to tell me these things.

I recall a moment, a very humbling one of mine, when my Mom told me that "it is great that you know everything, but sometimes it is better to keep it to yourself!" Of course being the teenager that I was, I just thought to myself - whatever, Mom, what do you know! As I reflect back, it's funny how people will tell you that "you just wait until you get older and have kids of your own"...that comment is oh so true. I just never knew that my moment of enlightenment would come at such an early stage in my son's life. I can understand it very much so as a teenager...but as a 2 1/2 year old?

Oh, the joys of motherhood! I laugh to myself everytime Garrett starts to argue with me and think ~ we have only just begun!

Friday, February 8, 2008

Lack of Self-Discipline for a Schedule - ???

As of today, I have had 5 people tell me either about the Babywise book or about putting my kids on a schedule, which is the gist of the Babywise book.
I now feel that if I don't get my kids on some kind of a schedule that I won't have the right to complain or that I would be like the guy who drowned and got to heaven asking God why He didn't save him and the answer was that God sent several people to save him, but the man refused the help.

You see, Brett is a good sleeper...at night. Thank God! But, the trade-off is that he is up all day, with maybe a 30 minute cat nap in the morning and in the afternoon. I'm sure that many Moms would love to have their babies sleep all night long, and maybe I am asking to have my cake and eat it too, but I'm sleeping during the night too, so unless I don't want to get anything done during the day, I need him to take longer than a 30 minute nap.

Since he wants to be held most of the time when he is awake, I don't seem to be very productive during the day. Things are getting a little better because he can sit up now and is starting to creep and crawl. He likes to play cars with Garrett and thinks that he is big stuff when he is in Garrett's room playing with him. That buys me about 5-10 minutes until Garrett thinks that he needs to throw the car at Brett's head, put a pillow or blanket over his head or push him over, etc. - you get the picture - brotherly love at its best!

I was thinking about it today and I believe part of my resistance (or maybe the majority of it) is that I do not want to be put on a schedule. Putting them on a schedule means that I have to have the self-discipline to make their schedule work. Now, I come from a family of union workers and most of them punched a time clock. I, however, did not follow down that same road. In fact, I recall at an earlier age making the statement that I would not make it in a career that I had to punch a time clock.

Creating a schedule and sticking to it feels like punching a time clock to me - it does not sound appealing at all. But, I feel that at this point in my life, I am being nudged, maybe even pushed, to grow (change) in this area. Having a schedule and sticking to it would make my life run much more smoothly, at least in theory it seems that it would.

For example, one of my friends gets up very early, I think she told me at 5:30am everyday, to get some things done before her kids get up. If I would be disciplined and do that everyday I could get some of my paperwork and EXERCISE completed without any interruptions. My excuse - I don't like to get up that early in the morning. But, with 2 little boys, that is about the only time I have to myself, unless it is after they go to bed and by that time my energy level is at zero or in the red zone. One of the benefits of putting them on a schedule, I've been told, would be that I get time to myself to get things done, to read, or to just sit down and relax (haha) for a few moments during the day.

As I'm typing this, the little small voice inside of me is saying..."stop making excuses and do what you know is good for you."

Feels like God is tapping me on my shoulder telling me that I may not always like, understand or agree with His plan, but that His way is always the BEST way!

Wednesday, February 6, 2008

PPM - (Proud Parent Moment)




Thank you Ms. Mandy...you're a great teacher and you're impacting Garrett's life in such a positive way!!!

Monday, February 4, 2008

Football & Fellowship

Admittedly, Fred and I don't watch football. He is not into sports, rather his vices are cars and guns. But, each year, when Super Bowl rolls around it seems like it is almost a requirement as an American to watch the game. Since we just got a HDTV, and was FINALLY able to get the satellite company to hook up the new service, we thought it would be fun to have people over to watch the game (well...really to fellowship, with football being the excuse to have the get-together.) Lots of our friends already had plans, so we had one family come over to enjoy the evening with us. God definitely knows what He is doing, because the one family that came over are about as into football as we are (they like to watch the commercials too!)

But, we had a wonderful time talking, catching up on life, and having some adult conversations that were able to last longer than 30 seconds (because our kids were in the bedroom playing together.)

Every time we have people over, we talk about how we need to do it more often. The same way when you see friends that you haven't talked to in a while and end the conversation with "we need to get together for lunch soon." I can't even count how many lunch dates that should be on my calendar right now for making that exact statement to friends. It isn't that I don't have good intentions, it is more like life just happening and days flying by without the time (or really the discipline) to make those lunches happen.

A good friend recently told me that life is too short not to go through it with friends. The challenge is to make the time for my friendships, because like any other relationship, it takes time and effort to establish and maintain good friendships so that they continue to grow.


There are always reasons why I can't - kids, family obligations, church, work, volunteering, etc., etc., etc. Those things will always be there and will never change, but my friend was right - life is so short and it is so much better when you share it with good friends. It is definitely worth making the time to cultivate my friendships, as well as being a reality check and reminder for me about what is really important in life...and it isn't whether I have the cleanest house on the block. I'm going to make it a priority that by the end of this week I will get some of those long overdue lunch dates scheduled.

By the way, we did watch the last 12 minutes of the Super Bowl game and it was well worth it. We both wanted the Giants to win since they were the underdog - and WOW, what a game!!!!

Definitely Brothers

It is truly amazing to see how much Garrett and Brett look alike, especially in the beginning. I remember showing Fred a picture of Garrett at 3 months and he said that if I hadn't told him, he would have thought it was Brett. Even Garrett would look at pictures of himself at that age and think it was Brett. So, I thought it would be fun to see how long they could pass as twins.

At 3 months, they definitely could have.....



But now, at 6 months, when I look back at Garrett's pictures, I can see at least 2 distinct characteristics...1 being their eyes, Garrett's eyes are sooo blue (taking after his Dad) and Brett's are a mixture of colors, they almost look grey some days, but then on other days they look more green or brown or a mixture of the two (taking after me). The 2nd distinguishing factor that was obvious is the amount of hair....this time Garrett taking after me (with a lot of thick hair) and Brett looking more like his Dad :o) It will be fun to see how things change as they grow up.





Brothers, Friends, Partners in Crime......




Friday, February 1, 2008

My Precious Little Kitchen Helpers


Since becoming a stay-at-home Mom, I have worked on having a family dinner every night. I remember growing up and having dinner at my great-grandma's every day at 4:30pm. It was a daily ritual, one that as I look back now, I cherish very much. My great-grandma was 70+ years old when I was born and after having 13 children of her own (with 4 sets of twins in there), she helped to raise her grandchildren and finally some of her great-grandchildren, including me, my younger cousin and younger brother. The rule of the house regarding food was that you had to try everything at least 1 time. You could not say you didn't like a food if you had never tried it. Once you tried it and did not like it, she would not make you eat it again, thankfully, especially since one of her favorite meals was liver and onions (yuck!).

It is a tradition I plan to carry on with my family. However, I do not like to cook every night. I was purchasing meals at Super Suppers so my family could have a healthy meal without me having to prepare it every night, but as time passed, the portions were getting smaller and smaller. (If you haven't heard of Super Suppers, it is pretty cool...you go into a store where they have all the ingredients for 12 different meals and you assemble them, place them into freezer bags or trays and take them home to freeze. The menu changes each month so you get a variety of food and you can split the orders so that 12 meals become 24, which worked out really well for Fred and I because the 1/2 order would feed 2-3 people...at least in the beginning). After the portions started getting smaller, I purchased one of their cookbooks and began picking a day to cook non-stop so that I could freeze the meals, then take one out to reheat for dinner each day. It makes my life so much simpler, especially with 2 little boys...and, I discovered during this go around that my boys really like to be in the kitchen with me right in the middle of everything.














It was actually fun doing it this time involving Garrett (and Brett) and I look forward to making many wonderful memories with my family during our cooking days and around the dinner table.

Thursday, January 31, 2008

Customer Service - A thing of the past?


We entered the 21st century last week by purchasing a HD LCD TV. Once we got it up and running, I called our satellite company to upgrade our service to high definition so we could take advantage of all that the new TV has to offer. After looking at our satellite company and what the competition had to offer, I was planning on switching companies. However, when I called our company, the man that helped me had such great customer service and was able to offer me so many things I decided to stay with our current company. I was so impressed that I e-mailed his supervisor to tell her that he should be commended on his outstanding customer service because it is very rare these days to be treated so courteously and professionally, not to mention that he had a lot of patience as I continually had to have him hold to tell Garrett to STOP IT and to try and get Brett to stop whining and crying. I never write letters or e-mails about customer service, so did I jinx myself? I think so, because I can't believe what took place after my initial order.

The appointment was set-up for Wednesday between 12-5pm, which in my opinion is ridiculous to begin with. With today's non-stop, up-to-the minute communication devices and technologies, there is no reason that a service company shouldn't be able to give you an appointment time and be within a 1/2 an hour or 1 hour time frame at the most. But, ok, I went with it. At 4:50pm on Wednesday, no call and no service man. I called the company. The representative told me that they had until 5pm, if for some reason they were late, call back and they would check dispatch. Seemed kind of a waste of time to me, but ok, I will call back. 5:15pm, no call, no service man. I called back, I was put on hold and told they were calling dispatch. The representative came back on the phone (after 10 minutes) and explained that someone was on there way to my house, they just got hung up at their last appointment, but they would be there. 7:20pm - no call, no service man and now it was dark. How were they going to crawl up on the roof to replace the satellite without the potential of serious injury? I called a 3rd time - this time I was told that she called dispatch but they did not answer. She was sending an e-mail and someone from dispatch would be calling me. I asked her if they were still open and she said Yes. I asked her if someone would be calling me that night; again, she said Yes and added that I needed to wait for their call, basically saying- Don't call us, we'll call you. 11pm - no call, I went to bed.

Fred was ready to call the whole thing off. He agreed that we would wait until I ran my morning errands and we would see if they called. 11:00am - no call. I called them back to find out what was going on. I was transferred to 3 different people and, after 1 hour on the phone, was told that it was all set-up for Friday between 12-5pm. I thought that was ridiculous, but they offered 1 month service free for my inconvenience, along with the other offers I had already received with the initial order. I also learned some additional info - that someone normally calls to confirm the appointment the day before and apparently the problem was that the satellite company showed the work order, but the dispatch did not show the order on their end. Apparently, however, the problem was solved and someone was going to be calling me that afternoon to confirm. 4:15pm - no call, so I called back again. After explaining everything to this "Account Specialist" he put me on hold to find out what was going on. He came back to tell me that the dispatch people still did not see my order, even though the "Account Specialist" from the previous call said everything was taken care of. At this point, I was told that the executive team was working on the issue and that it would be taken care of. I asked what time dispatch closed - they said 5pm, so 2 customer reps from the previous day obviously lied to me when they told me that someone was "on their way to my house" and that "someone would be calling that night" (they were already home enjoying their family dinner)! I was also told on Thursday night that an e-mail had been sent to dispatch and someone would be calling me (that was about the 3rd or 4th time that I had been told that one!), but according to him, dispatch people showed up early each morning and I would receive a call.

9:30am Friday morning - still no call, no service man. I called again....and started the process all over again. The newest "Account Specialist" to help me called the dispatch, who told him that they never received an e-mail, never heard of me, my account, or my issue. After another 60 minutes on the phone...he came back and told me that the problem stemmed from our zip code changing (it changed last July - not my decision, the post office's decision - and you would think computer systems would be updated by now - 6 months later). Once again, I was told that the problem was finally resolved and, this time, I was given the name and phone number of the local dispatch person that would be calling me. I waited an hour. No phone call. I called the dispatch. They told me they still had not received the work order. Can you believe this? Me neither!!!!! I told her that the satellite company said that they had e-mailed the work order, she told me they said they were unable to e-mail it. He said, she said!!! She told me that she would call the satellite company directly and get it straightened out (remember, I was told that had already been done - for the 3rd or 4th or 5th time). She called me back 1 1/2 hours later and told me that she had been on the phone with the supervisor there for that whole time and that the person was very rude and told her that they would not talk to her anymore that I, the customer, had to call back AGAIN!!!! I can't even believe that I am willing to call back at this point, but I'm thinking that at this point, has all of the other phone calls just going to be a total waste of my time and life? She told me to call them and tell them to cancel the original order and create a new one. I call back again, now speaking with my 5th "Account Specialist" (not to mention the other 4 customer service people before them). By this time, I had no patience left. After venting to that person, and acknowledging that I knew it was not that person's fault, I was told there was no work order - all of the other phone calls I guess no longer existed! OMG!!!! So, I went through what I had ordered 5 days before with this 5th person. After she entered it, I kept her on the line and called the dispatch lady from my cell phone to see if she could see the order and YES...FINALLY, she could see my order. We would have it installed today. Now, one other matter - how does it work since the new TV is HD and the room where the box is in is standard TV? Doesn't the HD TV need an HDMI cable and if so, what is it going to connect into? I asked the question, I was told that they would send everything that was needed. At 4:50pm (he was supposed to be here between 3:00-3:30pm, he showed up to tell me that my options were to run the telephone line from our bedroom along the baseboards into our living room (so you could see the wire running from the bedroom, into the hallway, out into the living room) or to go and purchase a cordless phone jack and have him come back tomorrow to install it. He wouldn't be able to install it today with the phone line and then come back tomorrow to install it with the cordless jack, if there was a problem, because they wouldn't let him - they would have to charge me a trip charge - which was totally out of the question.

I called Fred...he, like I, did not want a phone cord strung around the baseboards of our hallway into our living room, so he told me to go and buy the cordless jack. Now, the installer is scheduled to come back tomorrow morning at 9am to install the HDTV cable box. Still in time for the SuperBowl. Is it worth it? Don't know, haven't experienced HD in our home, but after purchasing a HDTV, we want to get to experience the whole reason we spent the money on the TV in the 1st place -which was only done because our old TV kept turning off automatically, which made watching a TV program a real drag.

I really did want to cancel the whole service and go with the competitor because of my complete and utterly ridiculous amount of inconvenience - but financially speaking, I was offered $100 for my inconvenience, all of the movie channels free for 3 months plus the other items they gave me made it cheaper for the next year to continue with their service. They will be receiving a letter from me, this time not an acknowledgement of their superior customer service staff.

As a customer I feel like I did everything I was supposed to do and then some. Their computers not speaking to each other correctly is not at all my problem. Being lied to just to satisfy me or to get me off the phone is not acceptable. Upgrading to an HD service should not have taken more than 3 1/2 hours of my life to accomplish...and when you ask questions and are given inaccurate information or if you are flat out lied to, it is completely maddening. Throughout the whole experience, I have been asking myself - what is God trying to teach me here? Are we just supposed to call off the whole thing? Am I supposed to increase my patience capacity (which, by the way, has to increase each and every day with my 2 boys). I don't know, but there has to be a lesson in here somewhere!

Yes, this entry is extremely long, but it will be very helpful when I write my letter to our satellite company telling them that their customer service follow-up needs a lot of work!

Wednesday, January 30, 2008

Principal's Office


When I picked up Garrett yesterday from Mother's Day Out, he was waiting for me in the "Principals Office", which meant that he had escalated through 2 other levels of discipline before reaching this state. A proud moment for any parent! So, I gathered him up to take the long walk down to his classroom to talk to his teacher and find out what his wrong doing was that day. Unfortunately, this was not his 1st trip to the Principal's Office and even though it was only his 2nd time - that isn't very good for a 2 1/2 year old!.

Garrett is a very sensitive boy and does not like to disappoint or make you unhappy. However, the little tazmanian devil in him that is loaded with too much energy gets the best of him sometimes. He did not want to talk to me and his teacher about what happened, rather he wanted to ignore the whole thing and hope that it would all just go away. But, we would not allow that...what kind of lesson would that teach. So, while he whined and tried to wiggle away, his teacher explained that Garrett just refused to listen, would not take a nap and would not obey. For me, this seems to be a daily event with Garrett and unfortunately one that I have almost come to take for granted.

Am I failing him somehow? Do I not have the right mix of discipline? Not enough physical exercise to rid him of the excess energy? Not enough consistency (for sure). I don't know, but the questions can definitely haunt you. Not to mention that one of my friends said that she was thinking of me the night before and wanted to tell me to read a book called "Babywise" which is supposed to be God's way of raising children. I know she is only trying to help me out, but I started wondering...do my children come across to others as the ones to keep their kids away from because they are too wild or undisciplined?
I continue to try new things and am open to suggestions...I came home and researched the "Babywise" book. I found that there is controversy surrounding the book and its author - an article that I read in Christianity Today talked about whether the practices could be harmful to your child, as well as the author's experience and/or integrity. I will continue to pray and trust in God that He will show me the things that I need to do and/or change in my child-rearing efforts. I said it in my Christmas letter and I will say it again...raising kids is the most humbling thing I have ever attempted in my life! I learn new things everyday and they never cease to amaze me.

If you have any suggestions for me to try, please send them my way because I don't want to be like the guy who drowned. When he got to heaven he asked God why He didn't save him because he was trusting and believing that He would rescue him. God explained to him that He sent a friend, a boat, and finally a helicopter to save him from the rising waters, but the man failed to take God's help.

Monday, January 28, 2008

My Baby is 6 months old today






I can't believe it, but Brett is 6 months old today!!! 1/2 a year has went by already. He is such a bundle of joy - and such a momma's boy! He is already starting to creep. He gets his knees up under his belly and pushes himself forward. I guess that it is true that the 2nd one will do things a lot faster than the 1st. I think for him, he is trying to become mobile so he can ward off some of the big brother bullying!



He sits up very well by himself and he and Garrett have fun playing cars together. Garrett has a little tent that they both sit in and play cars...until Garrett gets too rough and I have to rescue him.





Does Garrett look guilty or what?







In a way, I would like Brett to be a bit more independent from me, because it seems that I hold him all day long, but then I think that he is growing up way too fast and I want to keep him this little to be able to cuddle and hold. He and Garrett are fast becoming friends and it is so much fun to watch them each and every day - oh the joys of motherhood!